Saturday, February 13, 2010

WHY MEXICANS THINK & BEHAVE THE WAY THEY DO!


UNDERSTANDING & DEALING WITH MEXICANS!


In WHY MEXICANS THINK & BEHAVE THE WAY THE DO!—The Cultural Factors that Created the Character & Personality of Mexicans! I have attempted to remove the masks that have traditionally obscured the realities of Mexican culture, and in doing so provides insights that make it possible to both understand and deal more effectively with Mexicans individually, in business, and in maintaining constructive international relations with the country.

The book points out the cultural pitfalls and misunderstandings most people encounter when dealing with Mexicans, and provides pointers on how to avoid these problems and turn the experience with Mexicans into a plus.

Mexicans have a saying: Como México, no hay dos! (There is no other place like Mexico!), and I agree. Mexico’s traditional values and morals were forged in a caldron of aggressive racism, religious intolerance, male chauvinism, corruption and an elitist political system that connived with the Catholic Church to keep ordinary people ignorant and powerless and deny them the most basic human rights.

But the reality of Mexico has always been obscured behind a variety of masks—of piety, pride, courage, gaiety, indifference and stoicism.

The factors responsible for the traditional mindset of Mexicans include the sexual miscegenation policy of the Spanish conquistadors who destroyed the Aztec empire and the Spanish administrators and military forces that followed them who created a new race of mix-bloods—mestizos—whose only source of pride and dignity—for mestizo men in particular—was an extreme form of machoism and personalism that was to plague the country down to modern times.

Personalismo or personalism was and still is the foundation of Mexican society—in business as well as in social relationships. It still rules the lives of Mexicans to a degree that is both fascinating and frustrating, especially to Americans.

These frustrations include the traditional Mexican view and use of time, of truth, of respect, of face, and the simpatico syndrome. The Catholic Church-inspired taboo against criticism of any kind—of anybody about anything—was the primary factor in the continuation of the negative facets of Mexican culture down to recent times.

However, despite the fact that the traditional character of Mexicans is a mixture of medieval Catholicism, traditional Indian and Spanish authoritarianism, machoism and personalism, it has another face: an inherently joyful nature that manifests itself in music, singing, dancing and art.

For Mexicans life is very personal, very intense. One is always on a stage; with every action, every word, subject to careful scrutiny that must measure up to cultural standards of courtesy, dignity, pride and self-respect in a virtual world based on situational ethics and morality instead of principles.

But the same character and personality attributes of Mexicans that often frustrate foreigners in their attempts to understand and deal with Mexico can also make life there deeply satisfying emotionally, spiritually and intellectually.”

“Why Mexicans Think & Behave the Way They Do” removes the masks that have traditionally obscured the realities of Mexican culture, and in doing so provides insights that make it possible to both understand and deal more effectively with Mexico. It is available from Amazon.com.

Other books I have done on Mexico: “There’s a Word for It in Mexico!—The Complete Guide to Mexican Thought & Culture” and “Romantic Mexico—The Image & the Realities!” – All available from Amazon.com.

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Bridging Cultural Barriers in China, Japan, Korea and Mexico


Understanding and Dealing with Other Cultures!


The economies of the advanced countries have gone global, but not the cultures! This creates a plethora of problems that include economic as well as political affairs, especially with countries whose cultures are often so different that compromises--much less agreements--range from difficult to impossible.

In Bridging Cultural Barriers in China, Japan, Korea and Mexico I present a series of business-oriented insights that take much of the mystery out of the mindset and behavior of the Chinese, Japanese, Koreans and Mexicans...all insights I gained over a period of 60 years of intimate involvment with these countries as a member of an intelligence agency, student, trade journalist and cultural analyst.

Early in that learning period I discovered that the fastest and most comprehensive gateway to understanding people of other cultures was through key words in their languages--words that were pregnant with cultural nuances and uses. I subsequently wrote a series of hefty "cultural code word" books on China, Japan, Korea and Mexico that are now widely used.

This new smaller book is an introduction to the "key word" concept, focused on China, Japan, Korea and Mexico. It is excellent background reading for business people, diplomats, political leaders, academics and students...and is available from Amazon.com. See my website, BoyeDeMente.com, for a list and synopses of the larger tomes noted above.

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SPEAK JAPANESE TODAY! - A Little Language Goes a Long Way!


Home-Course Book Uses English Phonetics
For Instant Communication in Japanese


In the last few decades there has been a huge jump in the number of people around the world studying the Japanese language—a phenomenon some attribute to the extraordinary popularity of Japanese manga [mahn-gah], “comics,” and anime (ah-nee-may), animated films and TV fare....rather than to foreigners planning on visiting Japan or to the travel and hospitality industries that cater to the several million Japanese who travel abroad each year.

Years ago [in 1951] I created a system for using English language phonetics to help English-speaking members of the Occupation Forces of Japan communicate in Japanese “instantly” without previous study....primarily to aid American GI’s in communicating with their Japanese girl friends and mistresses.

I subsequently used this system in some 30 books I published on the business practices, culture and language of the Japanese, beginning with the first books ever on doing business in Japan, Japanese Etiquette & Ethics in Business, first published in 1959 [and still in print in its 7th edition at McGraw-Hill] and How to Do Business in Japan, published in 1962.

Among the now well-known Japanese business-oriented terms I introduced in these pioneer books: nemawashi (nay-mah-wah-she), behind-the-scenes-lobbying; wa (wah), harmony; tatemae (tah-tay-my), a front or façade, and honne (hoan-nay), one’s real intentions.

I subsequently published Instant Japanese and Survival Japanese for businesspeople and travelers who wanted to be able to communicate in Japanese quickly but had not studied the language.

My latest book in this phoneticized series is SPEAK JAPANESE TODAY – A Little Language Goes a Long Way!, a handy manual which features key vocabulary and example sentences for specific categories of people, including airline pilots, stewardesses, Immigration officials, Customs officials, hotel staff, restaurant staff, bartenders, shop clerks, taxi drivers, tour guides, doctors, families hosting Japanese students, and foreign students of Japanese.

The book literally makes it possible for anyone to pronounce Nihongo [Nee-hone-go], the Japanese language, correctly the first time and be understood without any previous study or practice.
Speak Japanese Today is available from Amazon.com.


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Why the Japanese are a Superior People!


何故日本人は
優秀な人々なのか

There can be no argument that the Japanese have been remarkably successful in their arts and crafts, their architecture, their social customs, and even their military endeavors, for more than a thousand years.

Since the end of the Shogunate era in the 1870s, which maintained a policy of virtually prohibiting change in the country, the Japanese have proven equally adept at adapting foreign technology as well as inventing new technology.

I attribute the special knowledge and skills of the Japanese to the premise that they are primarily right-brain oriented as a result of their vowel-heavy language—a linguistic circumstance they fully share with only one other group of people: the Polynesians of the South Pacific.

Japan’s noted brain authority Dr. Tadanobu Tsunoda [author of The Japanese Brain and many other works] says the Japanese tend to first process information in the right side of their brains—the side that deals with feelings rather than facts; a factor that is readily discernible in their arts and crafts as well as in their traditional management practices.

In the Japanese mindset, aesthetics and form play an equal role with functionality and it is this cultural element that is responsible for the extraordinary beauty of such common things as their bowls, vases, paper doors, room dividers, kimono and yukata.

The fact that the Japanese are able to use both sides of their brains has given them significant advantages over strictly left-brained people [the rest of the world!] in designing and manufacturing products, from arts and crafts to electronic devices.

In WHY THE JAPANESE ARE A SUPERIOR PEOPLE! I address such topics as emotions vs. reason, the “fuzzy” [holistic] thinking of the Japanese vs. the linear thinking of other people, the diligence factor in Japanese behavior, and quality vs. profit, and identify a long list of views and practices that distinguish the Japanese from left-brain oriented people—and are important for foreigners to know about.

For foreign readers, one of the more interesting topics in the book may be what foreign women have to do to cope with their left-brain oriented male counterparts. The book is available from Amazon.com.

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AMAZING JAPAN - Why Japan is One of the World's Most Intriguing Countries!



日本へようこそ!
Nihon ē Yōkoso!
[Nee-hone eh Yohh-koh-soh!]
Welcome to Japan!


Japan is known worldwide for its economic prowess and such iconic symbols as geisha, karaoke, manga, Mt. Fuji, ninja, feudal-age samurai warriors and huge sumo wrestlers.

What is not so well-known are its amazing historical artifacts [shrines; temples; castles; the world’s largest and oldest wooden buildings; arts and crafts, hundreds of annual festivals that go back nearly two thousand years]; the incredible scenic beauty of its mountains, gorges, rivers, one of the longest and most gorgeous coastlines in the world; and a combined modern and traditional lifestyle that is so fascinating and seductive that exposure to it for just a few days is a mind-altering experience.

In this intimate profile of Japan I identify and describe a choice selection of things that make Japan one of the world’s most unusual, most intriguing, and most enjoyable travel destinations…things that explain why so many foreigners take up permanent residence there once they have experienced life in this amazing country.

One of the extraordinary features of Japan that cannot be fully appreciated until you have experienced it is the fact that Japan is a very narrow but very long country with approximately 142,000 square miles in total area [about the same size as the American state of Montana] of which some 80 percent is vast mountain and hill ranges that are unoccupied...meaning that Japan's population of 126 million people live in a combined area that is about the size of Maricopa county in my state of Arizona!

What this does to the Japanese mindset and lifestyle is...amazing! The book is available from Amazon.com.

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EXOTIC JAPAN - The Sensual & Visual Pleasures!


As a trade journalist/author who has been intimately involved with Japan since the late 1940s I have had the opportunity to sample its many pleasures over and over again--some of them to the extreme!

I have used the experiences of living in, working in, traveling in and writing 30-plus books on the Japanese way in all areas of life to present a smorgasbord of the many things that make Japan one of the most unusual, attractive and seductive countries in the world...with insights into how to enjoy the sensual and visual feast..and not necessarily go to the extreme!

The main sections in this profile include Modern & Tradtional Japan, Origins of the Beauty Element in Japanese Culture, The Essentials for Enjoying Japan, Japanese Words You Should Know, The Lay of the Land, the Climate, The People and a long list of the individual pleasures of the country, from the pleasure theme itself, Japanese Inns, the Hot Springs, Mixed-Sex Bathing, Festivals, Night-Life [from cabarets to geisha], the famous "bullet trains," the mystique of the kimono and yukata, and more.

Whatever your interest may be, Japan will inform, delight, and titillate you. I have included survival-type key words and phrases in Japanese with their equivalents in English phonetics so you can pronounce them perfectly without any previous study or practice. The book is available from Amazon.com.

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Why Oriental Girls Attract Western Men!


From Marco Polo to the World!


The exotic side of the Orient has always fascinated both Western men and women who were fortunate enough to visit there. But it has been the erotic side of Oriental life that has resulted in large numbers of Western men, beginning with Marco Polo, spending years or the rest of their lives in the Far East.

In this intimate peek behind the bamboo and silken curtains of China, Japan, Korea, Hong Kong, Taiwan, Thailand, Vietnam and the Philippines, I identify and describe the physical and cultural elements that have traditionally made Oriental girls the epitome of femininity and unbridled sexuality—and given them advantages over typical Western women when it comes to attracting and pleasing men...

The number of Western men who have sampled the charms of Oriental girls since the end of World War II in the mid-1950s is now in the millions--something that the pioneer Marco Polo could not have imaged...but his present-day fellow countrymen are especially noted among Oriental girls for the ardor [and acrobatic techniques] with which they pursue young women of the Orient!

I have also included some valuable advice to Western women on how to overcome their disadvantages...most of which are a result of their endoctrination in religious concepts that seek to curtail and control the sexuality of women...all created and institutionalized by men, of course, because they inherently fear the sexual superiority of females. The book is available from Amazon.com.

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